Love(sounds Ai in Chinese)愛

Love in Chinese 愛....there's "Heart" in that Classic Chinese! Whatever ,goes into head games, there's no heart in that! Classical Chinese is so beautiful...愛.....That's "warm" on the top, heart in the middle....then friendly at the last, to make this Classical Chinese!!, If people can really understand each other's position?  Be:  "Considering" -which a friend should be ! That's warm...  Whenever your eyes looks in " Heart " way.......That's shows " Heart" ...Buddha says: When you are a Buddha yourself ? Whatever you looks.....there's always good side of people(Buddha thought each human being must done something good , so we are a human being this life, not born as a animal, but every life is precious as equal in Buddha's eyes, and every life we take ? just take every lessons that we couldn't accomplish at last few lifes---Of couse very different way to West-View...try just being -Open-Minded).....Only Classical Chinese can return beauty meaning inside!!

Funny Feelings

If i just stand as her position ? i got whole clear eyes to see things through ! After i finished my first sister's phone call, she still complaining her colleague , whom got in same sector at very first day. She got promoted, not my sister! Bothering her for years, she still cares a lot! What was inside so bothering her is pride !! I'm good, I'm so good, why she got promote, not me? All these years i heard that stuff, i want to help, but nothing changes, if there's changes? only last for few days ! I felt bad ! But all i can do just listen to her, same story again and again. Tonight~~ i just told her: you wont like to become ack like your husband at your old age right? So she stop !! I don't know if that work to her ! just wish she can really has peace mind , and stop comparing to that person she cares so much ! If that's bothering you this much ? why don't you just change yourself, Cause it's always easier to change our self but change people!! After our talking, i got a phone call, that's disturbing me much, but if i look that as that's my sister's problems?? Clearly picture just jump up from my eyes !! Funny feelings ! People who we cares to?? just might the teacher in this life !! Make me weak and make me Strong also ! Hurt like a knife cut so deep, warm as gentle fire also ! Some friends are suffering from the relationship of mother or father in law . Could it help -- just stop trying to win their heart !! You're already good enough, maybe that's only lessons you have to learn in this life!!