Funny Feelings

If i just stand as her position ? i got whole clear eyes to see things through ! After i finished my first sister's phone call, she still complaining her colleague , whom got in same sector at very first day. She got promoted, not my sister! Bothering her for years, she still cares a lot! What was inside so bothering her is pride !! I'm good, I'm so good, why she got promote, not me? All these years i heard that stuff, i want to help, but nothing changes, if there's changes? only last for few days ! I felt bad ! But all i can do just listen to her, same story again and again. Tonight~~ i just told her: you wont like to become ack like your husband at your old age right? So she stop !! I don't know if that work to her ! just wish she can really has peace mind , and stop comparing to that person she cares so much ! If that's bothering you this much ? why don't you just change yourself, Cause it's always easier to change our self but change people!! After our talking, i got a phone call, that's disturbing me much, but if i look that as that's my sister's problems?? Clearly picture just jump up from my eyes !! Funny feelings ! People who we cares to?? just might the teacher in this life !! Make me weak and make me Strong also ! Hurt like a knife cut so deep, warm as gentle fire also ! Some friends are suffering from the relationship of mother or father in law . Could it help -- just stop trying to win their heart !! You're already good enough, maybe that's only lessons you have to learn in this life!!